D just had a meltdown. She has been acting out a lot lately and I know why, but H is in denial that our Divorce has anything to do with it.
She is lashing out at him and he tried to punish her and I just stepped back and let him handle it. He couldn't so he called me in to intervene. I asked him what he wanted me to do and he told me to talk to her. I said if you want me to talk to her you need to leave us alone. He didnt want to like he wanted to be in the room when I talked To her. I said if you want me to talk to her I think it would be best if he left us alone. He did, begrudgingly. I held her and rocked her and calmed her down. I then asked her why she was angry and she said she was mad at daddy and I explained that when we get angry we can't hit. She calmed down after a while.
I don't know how he thinks he is going to handle these instances when we finally move away from each other. Of course if we have side by side condos he can just walk over. Lol!
This man is in la la land.
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"