You mean he can actually have even more euphoria after the divorce? Well blow me down! I just figured that he was already in his euphoric stage already. I literally have no idea how much more he could spread his wings now that he's divorced. The only thing that's changed with this is he gets his wages garnished. That's it.
I will remind myself that when spew comes my way it very well can be due to something else setting him off. I wonder if he fights with OW. I kinda have a feeling he does. D12 told me that OW was mouthing off to him about something and when Xh tried to explain something to her, he couldn't get a word in edgewise. LOL...I also heard quite some time back that he was snapping at people at work too. I do find it interesting how he'll be just as open and talkative about something one day, then won't look me in the eye the next. I did take note that he does tend to follow suit with me though, and I think it's usually intertwined with the above. Which is if I am friendly and talkative, then he tends to be that way too, but not always. If I back off and keep contact very minimal and short and to the point, then he does the same thing, even acts kinda rude. But all things considered, MLC or not, he is just MOODY. PERIOD. So WHATEVER...LOL!
I appreciate your advice on not listening to others in regards to our marriage. I had decided that some time ago. I realize loved ones want to protect and defend me and mean well. But really they don't know what happened. That's why I like to come here because each and everyone one of us has gone through this and really understand. MLC is one huge complicated mess.
Well I took your advice and started working on my yard. I just came in from a break of mowing, and Im going to start in again.
