My DB coach said the same thing about being the better woman, but I agree with you about competing with the fantasy and romantic love...when you two have a completely different 'love' at your stage in your relationship...why don't guys understand this??
My H does not want me close...in the 9 weeks we've been separated, he's NEVER initiated texting (I've only texted about the dog in the first 5 weeks). And now, we have not talked or texted in a week and a half.
He also is VERY stubborn and once he gets his mind set on something...that's just it! I just don't know how to show I'm the better person when we don't have any contact!
SO, when you do have the contact with your H because of kids and living together, if you want to be with him, truly show him the BEST side of you. It will be good for possibly R and for yourself and your kids!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
