Paige, glad to hear you are feeling better and doing something for yourself.

I dont think you should be so hard on yourself as to whether or not you file paperwork to D. You are living in reality that your H is 4000 miles away. If filing for D gives you legal & financial protection that you need then you should file. If financial & legal protection are not a big worry right now then take your time. Do what feels right to you.

Just going through this crisis is hard enough. We need to do whatever we can to take it easy on ourselves. Who cares what people think you should do? Just say "yeah ahuh you might be right" and go about your buisness. Do what feels right for you.

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13