Hey Seminole. Interesting turn of events. Can I say I think this is the harder part?? Harder than her leaving? It changes the entire paradigm and you are going to have to adjust. Even harder, you worked for a long time for these words, and then just when you gave up....
I agree with Wen. Slow and verify. She talked the talk, but it's a long way from walking the talk. You may decide to see if she is for real and see if this is what you want. But if you go that route, then you'll want to see if she is for real. That means you'll stay guarded (like it or not) and that makes it harder. But you'll have to be able to trust her if that's where you go and while I'm not a fan of games, which it would feel like, it's really about testing to ensure that it's really what she meant.
If you do not, it won't be fun either if you want her to go away and she wants a relationship.
Either way, better than the spew and anger, but seems like this is the real work that you've been prepping for a very long time.
Remember what you've learned. Remember who you are and remember you are worth a lot!
Good luck, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
