Do I just give in?

[Hurt84]

Thanks.

I think she expects that when she moves out that she'd be able to come do her laundry here or not take all her stuff. Reminds me of college when I'd come home on weekends. She also wants to try and do all the stuff we have planned already - vacations, dinners, mothers day, etc.

I feel if she does that it kind of defeats the purpose of separating and I think she wants to make this as easy as possible for herself. At the same time, right now I'd give anything for us to work stuff out so her not wanting to fully detach gives me the mirage of hope.

I'm struggling with how to handle that because I feel there needs to be some sort of boundary.