I also got annoyed yesterday bc she said she signs her apt lease on Apr 30 but probably won't move in until following weekend. Thats basically another 2 weeks of her wanting to get the best of both worlds. She totally missed the point when I said to her last week that maybe we need some time apart.
This is where detaching and getting a life come in to play. When you allow your emotions to continually be tied to her actions you will remain in a miserable place. That's not what you want it would appear, so start detaching, even if she is not ready.
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Me, last night I went to the movies...by myself. Probably one of the most depressing things I've done in a while. I guess I need to figure ouf a way to try and enjoy that kind of stuff.
Yes, you do! None of this is easy. The first time I went grocery shopping for only myself, it was a sad day for me. So many emotions.... But you've got to get used to that sort of thing.
There was a time when you thrived without your W. Get your mind back to that place. It will make things so much better for you.
Good luck!
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