It is me again. Screwed up again.

[25yearsmlc]

PS

a few more questions/requests....

Could you break up your posts into smaller paragraphs? It's just easier for me to read b/c otherwise it's a long narrative and it gets easy to lose my place.
Also can you tell us how long you've been at this? When did what happen?

Like when was the first time you separated, or heard her say whatever it was that made you know there was a crisis IN the marriage.

In your opinion, if she were to enter a recovery program and it worked, what else would YOU think needed improvement in the marriage?

What would SHE SAY that YOU need to work on? Is any of that true?

And, what are YOU doing to show her that marriage to you could better/different than before?

(B/c if she does not believe it can improve, she won't bother trying to make it work. Do you get that?)

Also, when you "reconciled" after her OD,

did you try counselling or rehab or treatment or marriage counselling to improve the marriage?
And then what happened?

Thanks...and btw, we attended Retrovaille a few years back and the couples that guided us as "mentors" were very impressive. Their problems were huge and truly, they'd show you that it's rare that a marriage cannot be helped.

Please read the Div Busting or Divorce Remedy (sequel) book asap.

This CAN succeed.