Stuck in Holding Pattern

[ben11]

Thanks for the quick reply.

I'm not really sure what she would think about it (my persuing). I think it might feel unnatural for her, and she might feel that it's forced. These are both things she said about our 'reset plan' that we agreed to with our MC. This plan included talking x times per week, seeing either x times,etc. It wasn't exactly organic. Maybe if I do it more in a go-with-the-flow' way, it will seem more natural.

I guess the main reason I ask is lets say I ask her out for lunch or something, and things seem to go well. Then a couple days later, or even a week later, I ask her again, and again, things go well (from my point of view), but after say 4-5 times, its always me initiating. Do I just keep going as long as things are positive? It could be seen as 'doing what works', but also could be seen as persuing. I've read it many times on these boards, and busto also told me directly to go at her pace. Respond 'in kind'.

Maybe we'll cross that bridge when/if we get there. Maybe I just need to focus on the letter for now...

I have a good GAL weekend ahead of me. I'm going to take these next few days to enjoy my life (I still love the life I have) and get to it on Monday.