Good stuff, ESN.

So from a practical perspective, what do you feel that DIM should actually DO to work through this anger?

DIM's emotional distress is showing up as emotional anger which is getting translated into physical violence and verbal attacks and outbursts.

What do you feel she should she actually DO?

DIM, what do you feel you might do when it feels like those emotions are about to explode in you? IF you are still feeling them in uncontrollable ways...