Absolutely. I'm thinking about joining another softball league that runs during the week, working out more after work, and simply trying to find ways to keep myself busy outside of the house - I can find ways to stay busy at home but obviously that runs against the point here.

I'm also toying with the idea of applying for the state police academy here. That would definitely be a 180 for me because it's something I've always talked about but never really considered. It's not a definite, I only found out they are accepting applications last night and I really do like my current job (I've been here for over 6 years and they are good to me) but perhaps its time for a change.

With us, nothing special to report. Today she took her big test for work and I was the first person she called afterwards all excited she passed. She's supposed to be going to look at the apt she's thinking of moving to this afternoon. I know she definitely wants to see what life is like on her own but I think she's struggling with fully cutting that cord. I guess we'll see what happens over the weekend.


M: 29
W: 29
T: 12 years
M: 4 years
Discovered OM: 02/10/12
ILYBNILWY: 03/01/12
W Moves Out: 05/04/12
Reconciliation Starts: 09/06/12
In-house Separation (Again): 03/09/13