Thanks for stopping in SD. I reread my thread today and made a document of many of the quotes and advice that have been so helpful.

I realized the other day that I have been in relationships for most of the past 20 years without a break. I have decided to spend the next year single and focused on my own growth. I am keeping a daily journal and seeking some form of inspiration/insight daily.

I continue to GAL and it is getting easier.

I have not heard from my W (it has been one week since her move) and I must say that it is a relief to not be getting emails about things she wants to take.. I am having some success at "changing the channel" when I start to obsess.

And I am so very excited that I am going to see the Dalai Lama speak tomorrow.

This board has been such a blessing and lifeline.

I wish you the best, SD.


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13