Hi Yankee

Wow - I've got some replying to do... Thanks guys for posting on my thread YC, KD & Bond I'll reply individually to your posts..

I think what went wrong for me this week (mentally) was how i dealt with my IC session on Monday. I felt really down after it & started questioning things that I hadn't thought about for a few weeks.

I think I needed some harsh words & a bit of straight talking to get me back on track. But I really was cycling around with my emotions this week, today seems a bit calmer & clearer, so I'm happy for that.

I think in regards to your point on limbo land, we just need to lower these expectations of ours. If I look closely at my own sitch there are some real signs of improvement, and that I just need to let things go at their own pace. I'm really happy with the exercising & GAL with my friends at the moment & I'm enjoying my UNI work again (just in time). I really don't need to over-think things with my W at the moment, just be aware of my actions & interactions with my W & work on my own confidence a bit more.

If we are both honest with each other no matter what we've been posting on here, the torches we hold for our WAS's are still burning & I'm not ready to put mine out just yet, even if it is burning my fingers.

Hang in there YC

Bill


Me 34 W 32
D 9 S 6
M: 9 years
T: 12
Bomb: 02/11/12
EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing
Moved out: Oct 2012
Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13

Don't just GAL, find yourself and be happy