Then she tells me she's just not sure what the next step is, that she's trying to figure out how she feels. Tells me she's thinking about going off the pill (to which I said "that tells me you have no interest in resuming a marriage with me right now.)
A 180 would have been to keep your mouth shut!
Maybe she wants to have children with you.
Or maybe the PILL is causing all her problems with your marriage. Going off of it may be the BEST thing that could happen.
Rethink what YOU are doing and saying here.
Maybe validating would have been a better choice. And then keeping quiet.
