I'm so very sorry. I can't imagine what your husband thinks he has gained with his new status. I know many of us hope that our WS's will wake up before our relationships are legally severed, but sadly the MLC journey takes longer than the divorce process. I believe one day they will all realize what they have lost, including your husband. They may never admit it, but current and future relationships will pale in comparison to what they had. I am praying for you tonight.