Hi Kimmerz. Things are moving. That's good, believe it or not. You'll see things differently at a later date. Keep moving
Life coach? I have a friend that did same. She is doing well. Started it during a similar situation. Very busy and very good. Helping others can be a way to help ourselves oddly enough. Helps us to see things differently. And it's a good profession if you ask me.
One thing you may want to consider in all of this. This is painful for your husband as well. He won't admit it, but it's not pain free like he may have thought. He's not as happy about it as he may have thought either. It's a two way street. His sadness is no different than yours, except maybe he has other issues and guilt. Hard row to hoe so to speak. Why he believes this is the best thing is beyond my comprehension.
That said, don't let down your guard. Just because its final, doesn't mean he won't lash out. He's looking for happiness and when he doesn't get it from this may think you are to blame or at least take it out on you.
It gets much better though, for you. It really does. Just keep moving.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
