He bought u a dozen of your favorite roses, told you he loves you, and you watched a movie together. Those types of things are not common on these boards.
I know we are not their and can't fully understand the tone and temperature of your sitch but these seem like positives to me.
Is it that he's not living up to your expectations? Are you angry that you are working so hard on you for your m and he hasn't reciprocated?
I recall some other recent positives coming from him as well. I know this has seemed like forever but in the grand scheme of things 4 months is not that long.
Look deeper and get back to us RoRo!!
((R))
I think I need to remember that we are "separated" and not really together, so the stuff he used to do on special occasions probably won't happen.
He does think that I am never satisfied with anything he does. Which is probably true. My expecations for other people are always mostly over the top. I am working on realizing that people are human and no one is perfect. I think because so many people let me down when I was younger, in my head I feel like if I finally let down my wall and let them in, they need to live up to that. When they don't, it shakes me to my core.