How can a man do this????? It's hard to see and hear things like these that your child is having these thoughts...right now I really hate him for what my daughter has gone thru wityhout me even knowing the extent of how much this has affected her. She is a beautiful,talented,caring young woman who will turn 18 in Sept. I hope this doesnt affect how she deals with relationships in her future.... can only imagine how she must feel....I dont care what you have done to me but when it comes to my children that is a different story.....I am so pissed right now....
Irma, I hope that now you can understand why I have been so hard line when it comes to these jerks! They are NOT going to be there for their kids! As much as you want them to do right, they aren't going to! I hope that you UNDERSTAND this! Sitting around waiting and standing for them after they have abandoned their children DOES NOTHING! As I have said, as much as you want them to do something, or think its right for them to do something, doesn't change their minds at all! You need to make some changes as well. Keeping your facebook page with you and him and stating that you are still "married" doesn't help your child, it contributes in confusing her! Build a new life for you and your children and stop living in the past!
