I know it's pointless to tell you to just try it anyway, but so much advice seems aimed at telling women to just get over it and start having sex.
What do you think of this?
Also I wonder if you are in the situation where you wish you wanted sex with your husband but you don't, so it's hard to. Getting told to just do it is probably not enough.
Me and my W go in circles about desire, and being in the mood, and how to get in the mood.
