Ok - just have to vent a bit.

Just got a text from my H. It was his BDay today, and I wished him a good day and hope it went well and all that.

He now texts me to say:

Went well thank you - busy in office - a few drinks afterwards - nice turnout - am seeing so and so tomorrow for tapas (smilie face).

What was the point of that?? I didn't ask him what he did with his day or what his plans were or anything! I wished him well.

I had an instant feeling of being stabbed in the heart. Am I just overreacting? I just felt so left out - AS USUAL!! It reminded me of the good old days of our separate lives. I've been with this man for 17 years and everyone else was there, but me. I so don't want to care anymore!!

His passive-aggressive crap is sooo old now.

I didn't respond.