Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[kat727]

My ex didn't really do anything to get the ball rolling on the divorce. I guess he wanted it but wanted me to do all the work or didin't want to be the bad guy or something! The one lesson I learned is that your L is not there to listen to how bad your STBX is or to help talk your way through the problems. They are there to get you divorced, like it or not.

Your L of course is there to look out for your best interests but still at the end of the day it is just a day's work for them. Only real thing my L kept telling me was that my ex was a snake in the grass and I would be much better off without him. Basically that is true.

I hope this gets resolved quickly for you but never agree to less than you deserve.

kat