I took two days off work as vacation this week, today and tomorrow. I decided to make an appt with Psychologist for a check in and afterwards roam around downtown for a while. I couldn't have picked a nicer day weather wise. So I met with shrink at 10:00 am and we had a good chat. Shrink thinks that SDA Lady and I are a very nice match for each other. She likes that we're both on the same page, are able to communicate and discuss issues, we compromise, we are equally caring towards each other, we have similar values, we both love to laugh etc. We discussed my anxieties about being in a R again. Sometimes I fear that the rug will be pulled out from under me when I least expect it. She said that was absolutely normal considering what I've been through. I mentioned that SDA Lady and I have talked about our trust issues. Anyway, it was a nice check in and the cheese is still on my cracker...for now lol.
Afterwards I roamed around the used bookstores and then drove up to a park I like to visit just out of town. I was reading on a bench on a deck by the pond. There is a closed snack shop behind the bench. Suddenly from the roof streams of water start flying through the air and coming closer and closer to me. I moved quickly and only got slightly wet, my book not that lucky. It turns out the fire department was on the roof practising their hosing techniques I guess. They must looked down, didn't see anyone and hosed away. SDA Lady texted my asking how my afternoon was, so I told her. She said "why did they hose you? Are you OK?" and I'm sure you know what I replied...wait for it..."I was on fire for you baby!" Is that worse than her "you're the cream in my coffee" lol ? That one was just too easy!
The book I had been reading was one from a Seventh Day Adventist book group I decided to join. On my Saturday visit the bulletin said they were having this group to discuss a book outlining some major tenets of SDA theology and I, of course, will go anywhere that gives me a free book! SDA's believe they are "the" church chosen by God, they call it the "remnant church". I very much would like to understand the reasoning behind that. I'm guessing it's through a vision by Ellen G White, an SDA founder, but we'll see. So on Monday's I have meditation group, on Wednesday's I have SDA book group (conservative) and every second Friday I have book group at the United Church (liberal). Fun wow! So that's my update for today..."I was on fire for you baby!"...sometimes I just outdo myself!


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White