Moving Right Along Part 3

[Starsky309]

Still strong but getting quite a few passive aggressive emails and texts from H this morning. It is very frustrating to say the least. I am deleting them.

I wouldn't respond to them, but I WOULD save them. You should be saving ALL written correspondence (e-mails and texts) from your H at this point, for legal reasons.


Starsky

[~ kd ~]

I wouldn't respond to them, but I WOULD save them. You should be saving ALL written correspondence (e-mails and texts) from your H at this point, for legal reasons.

yup... that was my thought

[Autumn Leaves]

Hi purgatory, so good to see you!! Thanks, yes the positive definitely outweigh the negative now which is good. He's been using guilt and manipulation, and is used to it working and sending me into a panic. It's not working and that has to be frustrating for him.

Thank you Starsky and KD, you are right. Saving everything will be important, you never know what I may need. First I need the L to call me It's been all week. I am guessing she must be out sick but I would love some answers. Calling again tomorrow.

[chatterbug]

Not only do you save. You make sure its mapped out. Dates etc...

Lets you see where you have been and where you going.

[Autumn Leaves]

Good call, thanks chatterbug. Ugh this is work

[Starsky309]

First I need the L to call me It's been all week. I am guessing she must be out sick but I would love some answers. Calling again tomorrow.

Call again TODAY. Leave a message that it's urgent that you speak with her.


Starsky

[Autumn Leaves]

I have an appt with her at 9:30 tomorrow morning. I am guessing she is catching up but you're right, this is urgent. Good timing for me to schedule and then go away for the weekend

[chatterbug]

Always do what you can on Friday.... On Thursday.

You need one day of rest for the brain.

Friday is the best day to rest , verify lists are being complete.

Think about it...

Adjust accordingly.

Then transition to weekend.

[Autumn Leaves]

Very true chatterbug!! Very true!

I am excited to share that I just signed up for a photography class. I got a new camera at Christmas and played around with it but really want the chance to learn more. I am also looking into a photography meetup group in my area. Should be fun!!

[mindfull]

Autumn...

Don't forget the advice from our txt's this am...

Find out from your new L if this communications style/timeliness is typical for her, or if there was a reason for the lack of response. Remember. Her JOB is dealing w/people at the height of one of the most angst ridden times in their lives. You shouldn't be left sitting and waiting, and making multiple calls to get her.

I'm pushy like that! (DUH)