Hi purgatory, so good to see you!! Thanks, yes the positive definitely outweigh the negative now which is good. He's been using guilt and manipulation, and is used to it working and sending me into a panic. It's not working and that has to be frustrating for him.
Thank you Starsky and KD, you are right. Saving everything will be important, you never know what I may need. First I need the L to call me It's been all week. I am guessing she must be out sick but I would love some answers. Calling again tomorrow.