Thank you for taking the time to read my sitch. It's good to have another perspective and I appreciate your feedback. And while I do admit I had my share of "wrongdoings" in the marriage, I don't think I was quite the devil H tried to make me out to be.
He never once suggested counseling and never once led me to believe he was so unhappy with things he was even considering a D. I really felt like the rug was pulled from underneath me.
I can perhaps accept how he may have come to the decision that D was the only option but I think his behavior towards me and the kids is deplorable. Leaving every weekend to visit another woman while I am left filling in the blanks is inexcusable. I still think he is running away from reality because he cannot cope.
I do appreciate your point of view and I can see full well why some choose to leave. I am working on myself to become a better person. Less angry, more patient, more open. I want to become the woman only a fool would leave. : )
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"
