Divorce....with a side of crazy...

[mishka422]

If you are stressing about the calls then it is perfectly fine for you to say you need some time to consider it. If she balks at that then she is definitely not looking out for you. Step back, take a breath, and don't look at it again until you have time to take into account all of the details. This is a good portion of your life you are talking about, not what you're having for dinner tomorrow! Gees!