Got a call from my L yesterday, she said that STBX and his L wanted to come to a support agreement before the court date on the 2nd.
We have been going back and forth since yesterday and are waiting right now for a response from them on an offer the we made this morning, after they turned down the one we made yesterday. I am stressed out and at work having to try and make these crazy decisions and feel like Im being preasured.
I dont know if this is the norm, but its ridiculous and if my L calls or emails again this morning Im going to tell her that I will get back to her when i get home. AND...Im not going to make a decision about my financial future on the phone on the spot!!..
Is this normal ???? I feel like my L is just trying to get it over with...and not being really helpful.


Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

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