How can a man do this????? It's hard to see and hear things like these that your child is having these thoughts...right now I really hate him for what my daughter has gone thru wityhout me even knowing the extent of how much this has affected her. She is a beautiful,talented,caring young woman who will turn 18 in Sept. I hope this doesnt affect how she deals with relationships in her future.... can only imagine how she must feel....I dont care what you have done to me but when it comes to my children that is a different story.....I am so pissed right now....