WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

I had a conversation with my w last night. It was odd. It came out of nowhere.At the beginning of the night My w was agitated with me when she came home. I left her alone. I ignored a few of my wife's jabs. my w mentioned MIL in passing. I mention to my w that MIL is not feeling well. My w snapped You should know why? I did not answer the comment. I said I don't know what you want me to say to that? I know my w was implying that the stress of our R is affecting MIL. My w said never mind. I left her alone and went downstairs to watch tv.

My kids were loud and and shouting and screaming. I came upstairs my w was sitting on the coach and my d and s were fighting and wrestling at my w feet. I have been trying to contain my kids aggression her my w seemed to be encouraging it as she was smiling and laughing at the ruckus. I stopped my d as she was grabbing my s hair and was trying to hurt him. My w said that they were playing. I tried to explain to my w that it is no a good thing for the kids to do this. Both my d and s have had issues in the last month lashing out and using violence to get their way. I have tried to contain it, but it seems my w is encouraging it.

After the kids went to bed My w shocked me and wanted to talk. No anger in her voice. My w said that she did not want to fight. She is tired of this. I agreed with her and said I 'm exhausted. My w said that I can talk with her. I said I still don't think I can talk with you right now. I I have been hurt by alot of the things you have said to me. My w said that was the only way I could get through to you. My w said I know you love the kids, Just as she does. I told my w that I don't want to ever keep the kids for my w as I see how much they love u. My w then started talking about house reno stuff that she had planned starting tomorrow. My w wanted me to know. I said thanks for the info. Better late then never. I said no problem.

My w hung around and still wanted to talk. My w just sat and stared at me. I felt very uncomfortable told her this. My w started to talk to me. My w wanted to know why I was going out tonight. I told her that I have joined a catholic family services group and I need to meet with the priest today. My w's face was shocked. My w seemed to question and asked me what my motive was for this. I said it is for my kids I want to lessen their aggression. I also need it to deal with life with out you. My w seemed to get agitated and stated that I should go to this greek orthodox priest. I said I need to do this for me and the kids. My w said that she was thinking of going to this greek priest. I said that it is up to you. My w seemed to hang around staring at me. My w then stated that she knows that I want whats best for the kids. My w said that she was tired. I said good night and sweet dreams. My w kind of lingered. It felt like an eternity. But she finally stated good night and went to bed.