remember do not tell him how he feels

you do not know the workings of his heart and mind

do not decide for him

y0u are making changes for you

out some things in perspective

because it is hard, you are thinking in mins

4 months = 124 days = 7440 mins

but

another perspective is

4 months = 1/4 of a year and I have been alive for 40 years so that is only like 160th of my life smile