Punkin,
I don't think it's unreasonable to ask for some of the things you want. But if you're expeting this guy to change, it is not going to happen.

At the same time, maybe you need to be on your own for a while. Secret: It can be fun.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D