Punkin, I'm so sorry about you and your family not being notified of the birth. It's difficult for everyone and I guess what needs to happen is the dust will have to settle and they will need to find a way to sort the uncomfortable things out. It will take a while, but I do think your "steps" will be in touch w/you and your family again one day soon. For now, as you pointed out...let it go.
Punkin, you are one gracious and strong lady and your love for life shines through in every posting. That light will help guide your family back in the right direction in the very near future.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
