ok, I think it's absolutely ridiculous for me to be in the vet club, but I will simply start as an example to the vets as to how this works:

WHO YOU ARE
+ 44 yo; w: 46; married 11 yrs; 2 kids

WHY YOU WERE SUCCESSFUL
+ probably because I got my mojo back
+ broke a number of negative patterns in myself
+ learned a lot more stuff about relationships that will serve me well in the future

WHICH DB TOOLS YOU USED
+ primarily LRT (M was severely broken when I found DB)
+ a number of 180s (breaking negative patterns and behaviours)
+ a touch of GAL (but not too much... wink )