ok, I think it's absolutely ridiculous for me to be in the vet club, but I will simply start as an example to the vets as to how this works:
WHO YOU ARE + 44 yo; w: 46; married 11 yrs; 2 kids
WHY YOU WERE SUCCESSFUL + probably because I got my mojo back + broke a number of negative patterns in myself + learned a lot more stuff about relationships that will serve me well in the future
WHICH DB TOOLS YOU USED + primarily LRT (M was severely broken when I found DB) + a number of 180s (breaking negative patterns and behaviours) + a touch of GAL (but not too much... )