When my H's already talking with OW about how we're going to be co-parenting our children, I'm not so sure that is a great sign.

Picked up my S4 from school today after being with my H for a few days and he immediately told me that he went swimming with OW and my H. But not to tell anyone because he wasn't supposed to tell me. My H told him not to because I would be sad.

Isn't that a little ridiculous? Did he really think my S4 wasn't going to say anything?

I am miserable these days. I feel so trapped in everything I do. I'm trying to find my own place so I can have peace of mind of starting on my own.

Everyone tells me that the R between H and OW won't last but I'm just not so sure. I am devastated that this is the woman that will be influencing my daughters. What a great role model to have in a woman that has no problem with sleeping with a married man. Makes me sick.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.