Hi, I am very new here too so I don't usually give advice but we had the same situation with the counseling. We started it full force, 2 hours joint per week, and an individual session for each of us. after about 3 months I think my husband got overwhelmed and scared of what we were uncovering and he gave up on us. I had been very confrontational in our MC sessions, at the time I didn't think ending it was on the table, and I had a lot to say. I think its good advice not to talk about it when you aren't in session, I feel like it consumed us and now he is moving out. Good luck, you are on the right path, getting this material so early.
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place
