Still nothing from the lawyers. H. back alot better. So as soon as he can drive I guess we will have the four way. Just down, packing is getting there.
Spent some time with some really great friends tonite. Made me feel a lot better. I actually laughed out loud quite a few times! Got my mind of the fresh hell that I'm sure awaits me this week with lawyers and moving. Sort of took the whole day off today. I moved 40 boxes into garage yesterday, to count them and get them out of the way for the big stuff movers will have to move. NC with h. today.
I know its crazy how fast your situation has progressed but I have been in limbo for close to a year and I know the only thing that will make my H look at me again is a D. In some ways once you get the D it will give your H the permission he needs to look at you again. Anything you do right now he will interrupt at controlling.
Hang in there
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
P we got ur back so don't stress too much ok. It will all work out. In AA they say that nothing happens because of coincidence. There is always higher being planning for us.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”