KD and cat04 - are you both trying to tell me that if i want closeness with h in the future, i should not pull back and take space now, but work on the closeness now - i'm so confused by both your posts.
cat - i thought you were referring to kd's quote - now, i don't know what either of you are trying to say
will try to write more later zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"