Hi Scaredsilly,

I haven't had time to read your stich but RoRo said you were looking for a couple links. I'll come back and help more, but here are a couple posts for now. I've been posting a lot on JKS, HopingandPraying and Hurt84 lately.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...334#Post2238334

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...963#Post2236963

You can read those for now if you want and I'll help later!

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015