and I think an important thing to note in my sitch is... what I GOT now... is something that I wanted 6 months ago... and I'm not sure I want it NOW...
So I think what the message I want to get to you at this moment zig, is that what you think you want NOW... may not be what you want in the future... that's all well and good and live in the now...
But what you get in the future will be an artefact of what you are working on, right now...
IOW, if you are working on getting some distance and some peace and quiet and distance from your H RIGHT NOW... you will likely get it... later... when what you want later... will be more connection with your H... whether he is still your H... or by that time your X...
So work NOW... plan NOW... be clear NOW... about what you think you might want in the future...
