Hi BklynMom, I can totally relate to your situation, reading your posts gives me hope that I can stick to my DB better, without being so emotional. My FIL who is very, very close with my H has Leukemia, diagnosis got much worse in November, and our MC said directly to him that that is what this is about. He is going to see him this weekend, but it only makes my H stand more firm in what he is doing when FIL tells him he is making the biggest mistake of his life. Not sure where I will be when he comes out of it, feels like too much damage already. It's hard not to take "the script" personally. Wishing you well today.
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place