Interacted with H a bit today, since he picked up the girls. He was supposed to have them until tomorrow afternoon but now claims work emergency tomorrow so they will be back tonight. Also he was supposed to have the kids all weekend and now he will just have them Sat night till Monday morning. Another work issue.
The difference now is that H is learning that I am doing him a favor by taking the girls and being flexible with the schedule. Because my L/father has insisted we have a set schedule now every time my H has to ask me for allowances I am being nice and helping him out. Previously when I helped him out he treated it like it was a given.
H is taking the girls to see his brother, SIL & their 3 kids this afternoon. They live 6 hours away so this is a special treat. Also SIL is fighting lymphmia (her diagnosis was what began my H MLC). I know his brother & SIL are pro marriage and are shocked by my H sudden abandonment of us.
I wish I wasnt at all hopeful that she will say something to snap H back to his senses. But I have a sliver of hope.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
