Always more to learn...

[needgrace]

Accuracy, Thank you for the suggestion on "The Three Faces of the Victim."

I read about it and learned a great deal about myself. I play all three of the roles at different times but primarily the helpless victim in my sitch.

I was doing that yesterday as a matter of fact and this new awareness is helping me start today differently. The article told me to focus on self care, rather than looking outside for a saviour (and I had convinced myself that my lack of self care was selfless!) and to acknowledge my problem solving and leadership capacities.

Thank you.

Me (F): 51 W: 41
T: 10 yrs
M/DP: 7 years
ILYBINILWY: July 31, 2011
W: Moved out 10/11, again 12/11
W moved to another state: 4/12/12