H says ready to work on relationship, now what?

[Some Day]

Thanks GWN and MrBond.

MrBond, when you say that this is a common Piecing story, which part of the story do you mean?

We have doing MC and I have been going to a women's suppport group for affair survivors. My H recognizes he needs IC, but has been slow moving on getting this done. I know why. He has a lot of childhood demons that he does not want to resurrect. He's never dealt with those issues, and I believe that it still affects him as an adult, although he tries to suppress the memories. I can't force him to do IC, only encourage him to do. Hopefully, he will see that in the end it is worth trudging through his painful past to get to better place. Not just for us, but for himself.