Hey W&H- I TOTALLY get what you are saying. My soon to be XH is currently living with his latest (censored). Keep in mind he just left for his latest job in Jan--14th to be exact, and told me via text on Feb 8 he wanted out. And NO PAPERS have been filed yet. So today is April 18--and he has been living with her for over a month now......Nice isn't it? I deserve more. Every person on this site deserves more. We all are deserving of love and respect. Just my rant for today.