Have you read DB/DR? Do you have the 37 rules? My recommendation is to focus on the advice they offer and on yourself, and pay no attention to her email account. You might try invisioning a big STOP sign or snapping a rubber band on your wrist when you start obsessing about things that are not within your control.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
