Retrouvaille Bound!!! (time for a new thread! )

[jlove]

Hi Jlove,

I know you may have covered this, but how did you know your W was ready to go to Retro?

I've been in my sitch for just over 2 months and I do see my H taking baby steps, but D talk still continues. I just wonder if my H would ever agree to try and work on this R.

I didn't know, and she even told me that she didn't want to and didn't want to be there the 1st day. We were in a holding pattern making no progress and just kind of existing. I know she is a religious person and somewhere inside her didn't want to quit on us. We just needed to get to that.