Originally Posted By: wishing, hoping
Thanks NLW. What do we have to lose? Except our dignity. I think my H is out to punish me and make me as miserable as he is.


WH,
I'm with you on this too. My H actually admitted that his relationship with OW was his attempt to hurt me in the worse way possible.

Presumably he meant in retaliation for the hurt I had caused him through parts of our marriage - that he hadn't really bothered to tell me about.

How sad is that?