I wanted to add SA that it would only give xh and new wife AMMO against me. It's a NO WIN situation! If I dont I am a coward and they treat me like one. If I do I am a trouble maker adn they treat me like one PLUS son will be convienced too.
It's tough.
and to answer your question AJ..... would I do it over sending my son to xh???? you don't know how many times i have asked myself that question. Even though I suffer greatly and I miss him so much, it was in son's best interest as far as being a responsible adult and getting a job. It wasn't, however, in his best interest to be put in the middle because I would have NEVER done that to my son.
They job and growing up...son HAD to have this lesson. The price he and I paid for it was our relationship. I have cried a many a tear over this one. BUT it had to be done. (even now I hate saying that and still feel alot of quilt when I do)
