Sorry - didn't see your reply jlove. Thank you for sharing. Sounds like your wife was starting from a somewhat "better" place than others. Still, congrats man - I hope you keep building on the positive momentum and don't get discouraged if things go up and down. After almost 8 months of being apart, I have realized that I would rather fight FOR my wife than fight WITH her. Ironically, one of those actions kinda lead to the other - but I am taking it as a lesson learned.
I still think it is a little early to introduce this topic to my W, but I would like to be in a place where we could eventually.
