WAW roomate is telling me she is moving out..

[hangten]

I noticed today my w tax papers disappeared. I know my w wants to do her own taxes. I have no probelm with that. I just need a little communication regarding who is claiming what. Can she legally claim we are separated and still share the same bank account. We also share the same roof. I have not be server separation papers. Nor have I been sent divorce papers. I don't want to react...but this action is more annoying then making me angry. I know my w is trying to get under my skin. I believe that my w and I should be able to discuss the kids first and then we can discuss the monetary issues. oh well guess my w will be a firecracker tonight. I will not engage. I will not respond. I will think of the kids first.